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That means you need to own up to the fact that you made a mistake, quickly, and do extra work to rectify the situation. { bidder: 'triplelift', params: { inventoryCode: 'Cambridge_SR' }}, own up to. I make a lot of mistakes. 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He was too frightened to own up to his mistake. Usage explanations of natural written and spoken English. { bidder: 'onemobile', params: { dcn: '8a969411017171829a5c82bb4deb000b', pos: '8a9691010178783c4831416439820259' }}, It's abpout recognizing, understanding and owning your mistakes. iframe: { ga('require', 'displayfeatures'); Try to remember that he is five years old and that the methods of interrogation you are trying to apply as behavior control are spectacularly unsuccessful because they are spectacularly irrelevant to a five year old. Before I start I want to warn you that there “might” be a few expletives sprinkled through this writing (more out of frustration and my disgust of dealing with the NOW dysfunctional CHURCH!) 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If you want someone to own up to mistakes, then create a positive atmosphere and lead by example. I decided to come clean about the broken vase. if(window.isGDPRMode()){ if(refreshConfig.enabled == true) iasLog("criterion : cdo_pc = dictionary"); 'increment': 0.01, “For the other person to heal, address the issue and acknowledge your actions were out of line. This idiom uses the verb own in the sense of "acknowledge." { bidder: 'triplelift', params: { inventoryCode: 'Cambridge_MidArticle' }}, }], We all screw up at some point. iasLog("criterion : cdo_dc = english"); var pbTabletSlots = [ Today we’re going to take a look the very real cognitive reasons for the difficulty in owning up to your mistakes. googletag.pubads().setTargeting("cdo_l", "en"); My husband and I are both pretty good at accepting our mistakes and saying, "sorry, that was my fault." to make a continuous, low sound such as the one a bee makes. If he gets punished and I take away a toy it's my desire to be a bully not his disobedience that gets him in the pickle. own up to (doing) something No one owned up to breaking the window. userIds: [{ "sign-up": "https://dictionary.cambridge.org/auth/signup?rid=READER_ID", Then it's time to sit down and figure out something else. }; { bidder: 'ix', params: { siteId: '195466', size: [728, 90] }}, { bidder: 'appnexus', params: { placementId: '11653860' }}, var pbHdSlots = [ dfpSlots['topslot_b'] = googletag.defineSlot('/23202586/cdo_topslot', [[728, 90]], 'ad_topslot_b').defineSizeMapping(mapping_topslot_b).setTargeting('sri', '0').setTargeting('vp', 'top').setTargeting('hp', 'center').addService(googletag.pubads()); "No TV before getting dressed and eating breakfast" sounds like it might be one reasonable rule; actually, better to phrase it in the positive: "You can watch TV on school days after you're dressed and have had breakfast, as long as we are out of the house before X hour." window.__tcfapi('addEventListener', 2, function(tcData, success) { Who broke it? }] The instinctive reaction to a situation like this is “duck and cover” — protect yourself by any means necessary.
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